
The Tables Are Turning: Anonymous No More
For too long, members of “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups have hidden behind the veil of anonymity while destroying lives with false accusations. That’s about to change.
We are currently compiling a comprehensive, searchable database of AWDTSG group members across multiple cities. Soon, anyone will be able to search and verify if someone they know participates in these digital witch hunts.
What This Means
For Employers: Check if potential hires participate in groups known for spreading unverified gossip and false accusations.
For Dating: Know if your match is part of a network that posts about men without their knowledge or consent.
For Legal Teams: Identify potential defendants in defamation cases with documented group membership.
For Men: Finally see who’s been discussing you behind closed doors.
The Data We’re Collecting
Our database will include:
- Full names of active group members
- Their affiliated AWDTSG groups (city/region)
- Join dates and activity levels
- Cross-referenced social media profiles
- Professional information where publicly available
Why This Matters
These groups operate on the principle that their members can make anonymous accusations without accountability. They’ve created a one-way mirror where they can destroy reputations while protecting their own.
That ends now.
If someone chooses to participate in public character assassination – even in a “private” Facebook group – they should be prepared for that choice to be public knowledge.
Fair Warning
To current AWDTSG members: You have a choice. You can leave these groups now and avoid being included in our database, or you can continue participating in digital mob justice and accept that your membership will become searchable public record.
The same transparency you demand from the men you post about is coming for you.
Legal Notice
All information in our database is collected from publicly available sources and member lists that have been legally obtained. We are not hacking, stealing, or illegally accessing any private information. Group membership, like any social media activity, leaves digital footprints.
Coming Soon
The database will launch in the coming weeks with search functionality by:
- Name
- City/Location
- Employer
- Email address
Members who have posted false accusations will be specially flagged in our system.
The age of anonymous accusation is over. Accountability begins now.
Stay tuned for updates on the database launch. If you’re a current AWDTSG member who wants to share information about the groups’ inner workings before the database goes live, contact us through our secure channels.