What started as “protection” has become persecution. The “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups have devolved into digital kangaroo courts where lives are destroyed without due process.
Welcome to the only platform documenting the false accusations, made-up stories, and malicious lies destroying innocent lives in “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups – where 3.5 million members weaponize gossip as gospel.
When “Tea” Becomes Poison
These groups claim to protect women, but they’ve become breeding grounds for fiction and vengeance. Anonymous posters craft elaborate lies knowing they’ll never face consequences. The rules say “no false information will be tolerated” – but who’s checking? Nobody verifies the angry ex who claims you have STDs. Nobody fact-checks the woman who says you’re “dangerous” after you stopped texting back. Nobody questions wild accusations of abuse posted at 2AM by someone you ghosted.
One UK man attempted suicide after false posts about him – he was “clinically dead for three minutes and spent three weeks in a psychiatric hospital.” Another was placed on administrative leave from his job based on anonymous lies. Men discover they’re being called predators, abusers, and cheaters by thousands of strangers who’ve never met them. The woman who claims she “did a Clare’s Law check” in 24 hours? Impossible – but 55,000 group members don’t know that.
The Truth About Their “Truth”
Here’s what really happens in these groups:
- Revenge Posting: Rejected women post lies to “salve their egos after facing hurt”
- Fake “Clare’s Law” Claims: Women lie about criminal background checks that never happened
- STD Accusations: Unverified claims about diseases spread to thousands
- Made-Up Abuse Stories: “Calling him a cheater and abuser, accusing him of blackmail and violence” with zero proof
- Mob Amplification: One lie becomes “truth” when anonymous accounts pile on with more fabricated stories
As one private investigator warned: “Misinformation can spread like wildfire in online communities. You have no idea what drives other posters; their motives are often shrouded in mystery.”
Real Stories From Real Victims
“My ex posted complete lies about me. The police told me they’re getting hundreds of calls from men having this information shared about them – often it’s either misinformation or completely false. It’s just a hate crime done out of malice.” – UK victim
“Someone posted calling me very clingy, very fast. Another said I told her what she wanted to hear until she slept with me, then I ghosted. None of it was true. These malicious posts are destroying men’s lives.” – Chicago man
“I was shocked when friends told me I was posted. Her side doesn’t match my side at all. We had a miscommunication and then I’m hearing from girls I grew up with that I’m a creep.” – London victim
The Danger Is Real
Women posting lies face zero accountability – until they get sued. But the damage is already done. Your reputation, career, and mental health destroyed by anonymous fiction. The groups ban anyone who warns men they’ve been posted – ‘snitches’ will be banned and ‘exposed to the whole group’.
This isn’t protection. It’s persecution. And we’re exposing every lie.
TL;DR: AWDTSG groups have become toxic fiction factories where anonymous women post unverified accusations, revenge lies, and made-up abuse stories that destroy innocent men’s lives, careers, and mental health – with zero accountability.
